Reuben Bijl

The thing I keep coming back to, across most of what I do, is how small a part of us each relationship can hold. Husband, father, friend, colleague. Each holds something real, and none can hold it all. I find a lot of freedom and joy in exploring that gap.

I’m working this out as I reflect on my life, and documenting it in writing. Most directly in Thriving — a map of what it takes to keep choosing what your life looks like.

I live in Christchurch, New Zealand. The companies I’ve built, the coaching I do, and the book I’ve written are on the work page.